How not to act manchu?

Manchu is that you ? Or a person who just shows up in front of a girl and could barely take a deep breath to tie his shoe laces since he will lose how his hands look on his waist?(infront of a girl ) while head is blank at that moment.(shoes or girls or choose a girl )
Nooooooo! Dont even think ! Just think @ that come.
So how not to act manchu? Well psychologically you need to hear the high pitch with wow ! But mentally  it does not go the way you like? The answer is .y god monitored mind ! But the solution is a key which is a key just lock and unlock strategy. Unlock your emotions and lock your feelings. That's actually what women like just have your own emotions such as happy ,sad,angry,jealous,excited,tired.but lock your feelings such as worry ,anxious,shy,big mouth actor,yeller,grumpy picky man,very well mannered to the edge of statue movable man so you call people by one clap,creepy scary manchu actor who just want to beat some one.see there is a huge difference between emotions and feelings.emotion are naturally existed in us and it comes out whether we plan for it or not such as fear.but feelings are man made through media,pals around,how friends chat so we can try out a new expression.i hope that helped to view my point. My second point is equal equations  .yes not a math class but a meth in psychology. If you want to act or show power she will see that based on how you act or show .so if someone stop you to show how athletic body and big muscles they have .are you gonna be impressed or scared or not important.so that's actually what the other person will think like.if you do have that  same traits with every one around including the girl that's ok but if you act super power to a girl and super shy to other people around .that's a red flag.i am not saying any thing which is hard to demonstrate. I am trying to say obser e the girl and that's easy to spot by her reaction to you and other people then set up the right emotions that is needed.for example
A women on her first date is wearing all show up clothing and want a beer and yell at the waiter and picky on a service at the restaurant ts and rolling her eyes on couples around and not answering her phone then she answered her phone by not listening just to ask the caller to leave her alone and that's their fault they ruined her day.then she is telling every one how she has bad mood now and cant get back on track. Soooooo you observed that what charactic is she and will this character suit you ? From your observation you can tell she is a party person and self caring person and do not care about hurting people feelings . So if that's your choice you have to be like that a good listener and correct what you dont like by saying I think you were tired and not in mood but I know you did not mean what you said you meant that.....your correction.....then I have hope on you .now why you have to choose that method not a waisted arm man style who is just upset and mad if any it is because your observation to her.she is announcing she is in a bad mood which means she wants some one who accept her bad mood not someone  who say sorry to hear that i hope you feel better because her answer will be no i already said it takes me a while to get back to my mood so she wants someone who say ok you have a bad mood now but i know you have a good mood once in your lifetime or more so ok I just say ok but I know you did not mean to have a bad moon or intented to happen .it happened for a reason then she will start to talk .I will write more articles about spotting people reaction later on  generally speaking ask your self after observing the other person what they are missing in their case and fulfill it with emotions and conversations.thank you for reading