Hello everyone and in this post I will be talking about how to spot a toxic person? First of all before reading this post look around you. Did you have a negative feeling deep inside about someone and you can not come up with a reason. That indicates that he or she might be a toxic person. But let me remind you that our life in general is ruled by toxic people all over . Because they hate the because part of story they just love how much toxic you can add to life. So how to spot a toxic person? First of all make a small test speak negative about people and you will notice how they react to it? Usually toxic people will draw your personality in them before they will talk to you . They will either be sympathetic and humble according to your convincing line . Because what's going on inside their mind is I am going to be your copy and you will never see how evil I am. So if you meet people talk your language not their regular personality. That's toxic people. Usually people who doesn't have any issues keep their same personality. They will either approach you with charm that doesn't fit their personality it is all for one reason. Conceal their real evil personality. Another indication is that they play the holy toxic game. They will appear to you as a holy person who is holy and right in their life and hate all wrong doings. But they will enhance and accelerate the negativity elements till they win. So if you see someone who came by to see what's going on then they blame someone in the scenario. That's an indication. Then once you defend that person they will come again to convince you why you have to blame that person from first place. But hey ! Their smartest part of the scenario will be some one out of the story need to get the blame. But what they missed here is this . Stories in general don't need a convincing to people around. Stories shows it all by what happened? Then they will play the same game by what happened in their way? Not to look wrong. But if the story showed that the toxic person was wrong they will not get away from it. Instead they will start framing people and changing the story events. They always have psycho issues inside. Normal people will take the wrong results and apologize and feel bad. Toxic people will continue their show. Another indication is their reaction to you. If you ask for something they will pile up the execuses available that might delay that or stop what you need. Then they will play the holy innocent people who can't do anything about it. Normal people will be digging for your help not to look bad or stupid. It's human psychology. We don't want to look bad to others. Toxic people have no shame no remorse those are the people who give you the nasty face or look without a reason. Then they will play the holy helper and best friend to their group they choose as toxic people. Why? Others highlighted them as evil so they play the holy charm. Normal people don't give nasty looks . They will in their conversation defend themselves to the fullest without a serious situation. So if someone is telling them watch your conversation just as an example. They will go and spread the news .what happened and they will defend themselves to everyone in the room . While normal people will question why they said that? Did I say something? Did someone say something? And they will try to find out the reason from the person who said that to them. Toxic people are the walkers with a stare to every thing you do. Normal people don't walk like that unless something is going in their mind about specific person. Those are the people who ask about every single details that doesn't fit the situation with them? Such as a stranger asking you how often you cook ? Do you go to that certain store? What time you go to bed? What makes a stranger care? Ask your self but a toxic person will gather all information they can to start something. Another indication is that they run to new people in the room to be their best friend. They will act their friendly way till they pick who is matching their toxic group then they ignore the rest. They will write down their solutions on papers to shut you off and highlight the policy or point that can shut you off. Then they will use their pile up holy execuses to get you numbed to what the paper say. But what is next is great! They missed that any policy or point to stop any action is made for one reason " positivity savier" that's why we have a law to enhance the positivity and treat the negativity slowly till they become positive. But toxic people will play you on that line " laws are made for bad people if you are good then you don't have an issue " which is right as put but wrong as what they say. Because bad people from first place are bad so no law for bad people they break the law. But the reason we have a law is to have positive outcomes. So if you see solutions that shut you off on papers without working with you in person with all reasons you have to be put with these stubborn solutions that's a toxic indication. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't respect a policy or you are not going with the policy as they will blame you next . But that means you are working the best you can within the policy outlines and that you explain your reasoning to the policy. But if a policy is their to cut off people reasons it is not a policy it is a toxic order. Now toxic people don't waste their time to help the others but they are their phony helpers on the go. So if you are in a group and a person said well that doesn't affect me thank god well I don't think it will affect you guys I think. That's a toxic person because when you hear something you think about yourself and how the others will react to the situation too if you are one group. Also another indication of toxic people are the opinionative ones. Those who you must listen to their opinions on others most of time. If others are not their issue there is no opinion shall be in their head. Then once you respond to that they will put their response based on your answer. For example if someone tells you that guy is creepy he sits quietly. Then your answer well do you know why? Maybe he is thinking of something. Then toxic person will enhance that no because you can think and talk like us. Well the truth out of this the guy doesn't think of that person so highly. But the toxic person wants to get that guy down. Normal people will think that way but a toxic person will try another psychological attack. Toxic people will be waiting for you in the hallway and acting your best that you can't have! When you see people changing how they stand or talk when you walk around them that's an indication! Well why they do that? My answer is no intelligence. A toxic person love them selves to the point that no one around can resist them. So when you are normal and not toxic they have to play you Cinderella. Toxic people will criticize what you do by piling up the holy execuses then if you get them in a response they will be like " well you just need every one to like you" which is in fact they are introducing themselves to you. To criticize a person you must be affected by something that you tried all solutions to work it out with that person. So that means normal people don't criticize! They will get surprised and asked why or what happened.
