How to spot child abusers?

You always hear a phrase "kill them with kindness "and you always wonder does it work?the answer is yes .since haters develop envy and hatred and abuse in general. Haters can't stand peace and happiness. So how to spot child abusers?the child abusers in general have personality traits that you can spot which is basically a cover up plus brain wash.so if you have a child for example who had been abused you must put yourself in a child position and carry on your own observation to get to the conclusion. Child abusers lack intelligence in general but in their own world they see themselves as smarter than anyone else and they show their only power to children who are helpless to protect themselves. But in general child abusers can't stand on confrontation face to face to an adult since they are coward people in general. So how to spot them?they used to do the same method in  the old days such as scarring a child off and threaten a child by something that's dear to a child and the child has to keep their mouth shut always .but now the child abusers developed their method to a method that fits today's world life style. Since the media play a gigantic role to spread all ideas how to brain wash people. The abusers decided to get aside that role .so if you spot a child who is abused .the child will appear social since the media taught people the first sign of child abuse is silence. So that was just an example. So bottom line .what you read about child abuse signs on media don't exist .since child abusers limited intelligence level push them to do the opposite so no one spot them in their own head.but that's not what is obvious to highly intelligent people.so the first sign to spot child abusers is their stare and inconvenient place.they will be around the child or send spies such as other children in some cases but they will look and sound either by acting and preaching their love to the child whenever any one in the room while they still have their tense eye contact on a child .or by acting busy and distant from the child but instead of them sitting in their room they might sit in strange places to monitor the child .or they keep passing back and fourth in the room or you will see strange kids or elderly walking around in funny way with no reason to watch the child .or they will talk over the child to brain wash you since they are using the adult wisdom ego as an execuse to cover up their sick nature.they might say something if you ask a child to drink water such as oh the child already drank a lot of water before or they stare at the child once you ask a question so the child say no ,I am full.also if you are asking a child directly about their welfare they will come immediately and throw a comment such as oh what a good kid .you will notice them popping in nonsense. Or staring to a child.they will thrive to convince you of any thing that interferes with safety of a child.they might say .oh I raised a lot of kids but they left .no one call me back but I still love them .I hope the child doesn't grow to be like my own kids.also kids know when to ask for water or when they are thirsty. Bye.that was just an example.if you want to test them set them up in that trap.when I leave my child I like to watch what the child doing by camera. Then immediately they will look at the child then roll their eyes then say I do not think every one is comfortable with the camera. Because it is privacy and they will dig for all reasons to cover up their crime.they will act super friendly and holy to a child but you will notice their tense look in some of it.they can get all their sick people to a child so he cant go anywhere since every sick person of them is watching him.you will notice also the child is acting abnormal such as refuse to wear a jacket in cold weather. Refuse to put shoes on,refuse to eat or drink act hyper so the abusers can brain wash people that the child is mentally sick or the child is brat.generally speaking. There is no bad children unless they have bad environment. The solution is camera and samaterian people.
Another bonus test.
You might want to ask the abuser a question such as "I wish your child will be more successful than you and better than you . Then wait for response they will usually go blank and bite their lips then say well I wish I see him good and yeah I dont want the child to be like me then roll their eyes. That's a red flag since alot of them it is hard for them any one to be better than them but they still have to act holy .think about it. If you like some one then you dont just wish them good you want to see them as good .also some of them might change the subject like "well I do not want them to be like me or I do not want them better than me I just want them to be good.you will sense their narsastic nature that no one above them and no one look up at them .you will also since their emotions are shallow but well programmed to hearing what they say according to what need to be said.a loving person will just catch on any positivity complement about a child and will embrace it to the top.you will just feel as the abusers are pouring out hatred,narcissism, criticism ,brain wash.but it is hard to detect positivity. When they act positive they cant remain for long time once something  negative happen in the subject they will bring all evidence to prove the negativity. you will notice they will snap on a boyfriend or mother with such hatred.they might start and enjoy argument for hours or for days for a minor reason like some one forgot to call them back .they cant forgive people. They just the most happiest people in miserable situation that a normal people dislike.also they will bring all their drama in a conversation such as" I cant buy my child a car cause I did not get a car when I was his age.the child need to earn it hard as I did " you will sense their jealousy and hatred .if you love a child .you will not think about bringing the child down as miserable as your past.this is a red flag sign of hatred.i will give my child all I have to see my child better than me that's just what I believe as normal.