So babies are individuals and they have complete rights equals the adults rights . They just have a different language until they learn humen language. Once a babies are born they were to be led by humen care which is important to establish their life style. What is not right is that they might be led by humen psychology in my own opinion specifically Narsastic people who are popular in today's world. Narsastic people they always have their urge to control whoever less powerful than them therefor they can control babies and people who are less intelligent than their smart mind. But they can't control people who are smarter than them it just put them in their real standard of a second hand.
So babies get born then start to cry once you watch the nurse flip the baby upside down while shaking for making sure they breath which in fact there is another way to check someone's breathing in the medical field without flipping the someone's body upside down specially elderly. Then people around start advice people with their smart mind they own as a golden asset that babies cry all time it is normal as long they got fed they are fine. Which in fact any normal human being would not talk nonstop all day long by himself or around people. Humen just talk as communication needs only not as a desire to spread all words they have to people or to themselves nonstop with no reason just because their urge to communicate which doesn't make sense.
So babies cry for many reasons not without. Such as hunger,thirst,pain,fear,disliking a place,want to be hold,anxiety, discomfort, danger,giving you a message,etc.... So the best way to understand babies psychology is to put yourself in babies position.
What people frame as a society stigma to others in order to spread their wrong ideas to others is not surprising such as their life experience of raising children or the number of children that they have must classify them as perfect people is totally wrong in my perspective. A simple camera is your best asset to see how people treat babies not their word of mouth that suppose never lie. Also people advice people that babies need to be shrouded in that babies wrap so tight since they got used to be in the womb is totally nonsense and wrong. I personally had an experience where I saw a nurse wrapping a baby so tight as a mummy and I unwrapped the baby then I showed the nurse how the baby is suffocating by tight wrap on chest and stomach and I showed her how he can't move his hands or legs then i did an experiment with her that i wrapped the bed sheet around her from my best strength i have and she was about to faint with suffocation then she apologized to me.Also keeping a pacifier when baby is crying is wrong if your baby is hungry feed him until full no one likes an empty plate when you are hungry.So also throwing a blanket on babies in a car seat blocks the air from babies and cause suffocation even if you have openings simply because all these people throwing blankets are not experts on their baby breathing capacity. So the best way is to respect babies as you do to yourself. Feed your baby whenever need by not throwing a bottle on a bed while sleeping, your baby must drink like normal people do when they are in sitting position. Also change baby's diaper and clean their sensitive area by water to avoid diaper rash. Dont shake babies or move them on your arm nonstop to make them stop crying. No one likes someone shaking their head nonstop for fun to stop talking. Just use your common sense. But babies have reasons for their cry all the time.
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