How to be the one ?

Hello all readers,in this article I will show you my personal tips on how to be the one for the person you love ,however that applies on my personal perspective to help whoever wants to enhance their relationships only. So every one's main goal is to maintain the good scale of attraction and a complete picture infront of the person they love .that is simple to scale if you got your right measuring skills which is as follows:

• Look at your self when you deal with the other person you love is wrong instead look at what the other person expects from you and think ahead of time based on the person talking, looks at you,talking to their friends about you,eye language to you,complains.
• Take care of your looks and hygiene and in case you don't look your best explain why to the person you love you look that way temporarily. 
• Be sensitive this is a hard tool since it involves intelligence and charisma. Basically, feel the other person emotions at the time only includes right eye contacts and conversation and don't fake your emotions to please the person instead ask the person to come back to you shortly because the person is important to you. 
• Dont criticise the person straight flat in their face and then claim your self as a straight forward. This is highly red flag in any relationship instead say " i agree with that but i think if we do that it will be better, what you think? Then if you still don't like what you see add this " I think we can try this for now but your idea is still in my head
• Don't brag about yourself and achievement that doesn't just make the other person look stupid since you don't give the person a freedom of their opinion. It also will make it feel like you're talking to your self in the other person perspective since you don't want to hear a chance of a person inputs in you.
• Don't talk nonstop and nonsense switching subjects to the other person so you might impress and look social to the other person. That's totally annoying and boring at the same time instead make a one on one method which is if there is a comment you finish the comment, if there is silence you might ask a question, if there is a conversation already started then you add to it,if there is silence for relaxation just enjoy it.
• Don't be the boss and don't be a cacoon which means make the other person feel their power but be persistent about your ideas and opinions not always a follower.
• Don't be a money watcher and a money accountant to the other person. No one wants to feel you had been accepted based on your bank account balance in the relationship. Just implement the concept of we live our relationship but money is just a necessity to keep life going. So both share money based on needs and compassion. 
• Don't flirt with others to make the other person jealous. A lot of people including myself will react to that by dumping the person next day.it involves disrespect and humiliation to the other person. 
• Respect the other person in a fight situation, don't just blame it on the other person and threaten the other person to leave, alot of time you have to think about your saying. 
• Respect the other person privacy from the public ,words travel faster than oxygen in today's society. If you tell your friends about the person you love privacy expect to lose that person soon.chances are high with social media and phones and chats.
• Don't beg the other person or ask for xxx ? If you love someone you will make time for that and not to deny it with execuses.
• If the other person is not doing the same as I explained in this article then you didn't get the one you got the phoney one.
• Don't listen to people advice in relationships. You should make it your own. It is your own life and relationship not theirs.